A
MAN
by
Steven M. Apa
A
Man takes a shower every day and always washes the unusual places; sometimes
twice a day. He brushes his teeth every
morning and night; remembering to floss.
This is how you groom your hair. Make
a clean part of your hair on the left with a comb. A Man never looks disheveled when he leaves
the bathroom. Go to the barber every six
weeks. If you change your hair style,
make modest adjustments. A Man never puts
on socks with holes in them. This is how
to darn a sock. A Man wears clean
underwear and throws out the old; or uses them as rags to wash the car. Always use deodorant so that you don’t draw unpleasant
attention to yourself.
A
little cologne goes a long way. A Man
always wears a belt so that his trousers remain around his waist. Tuck-in your shirt… neatness counts. Clothes make the Man. Always look your best even when you are
alone; good habits are hard to set. A Man
never looks frumpy. This is how you make
a bed. You never know if you will have a
visitor. Tidiness is next to
Godliness. Huh? This is how you tie a
half Windsor; this is how you tie a full Windsor; this is how you tie a bowtie
if you should ever need to. A Man never
wears suspenders and a belt at the same time.
Your leather should always match; black shoes and a black belt.
Stand
up straight; shoulders back; head up. Be
confident. Walk with confidence even when you don’t feel confident. Don’t be rude or arrogant. A Man is well thought of that is humble and
contrite. A Man can take care of
himself. Watch others and learn from
what they do right. Select those habits
and style of living that you prefer and incorporate them into your own
life. If you associate with ‘winners’,
you will become a ‘winner’. If you
associate yourself with ‘losers’, you will become a ‘loser’. Never wear your baseball cap backwards.
A
Man knows how to make a formal introduction.
This is how you shake a Man’s hand; look at him in the eye when you’re
greeting. This is how you introduce
yourself to a lady. This is how you
introduce yourself to a young woman. When
entering a building, elevator, or room, you always allow the women to pass
first. A Man always holds the door for a
woman; even if you don’t like her. A Man
never sits until the women at the table are seated. A Man always puts his napkin in his lap at
the table. A Man never uses foul
language when in mixed company. A Man
never leaves his date. A Man always is
polite to the waiter or waitress. You
should never be afraid to send back to the kitchen a poorly prepared
entree. A Man never drinks and loses
control of his faculties. You must never
smoke, it makes you and your clothes stink; a very unhealthy and costly
habit. Drink occasionally and at social
events. Never gulp your cocktail or
beer; you will get a reputation as a drunkard.
A Man has personal pride in himself.
Never
chew with your mouth open. Never use a
toothpick at the table in front of others.
A Man always pays the dinner check when on a date. A Man always opens the car door for his date
or spouse, they will never forget it.
Never order appetizers if others at the table are passing. A Man always waits for others to be served
before eating. Remember to eat slowly
and take small bites so as to not appear unsophisticated. Never suck your teeth at the dinner
table. If you accidently belch after
eating, always excuse yourself without amusement. Never adjust your crotch in public. Remember to always say please and thank you;
no one ever gets tired of politeness. A
Man never speaks with his mouth full of food.
A
Man knows that people generally gravitate toward happy people. You should never look too serious. A Man chooses his friends carefully. You need only have a few close friends, and
one or two very special friends. A Man
never gossips about others; it will always come back to you in a bad way. Never tell a lie, you don’t lie well. A Man can keep a secret. Don’t ask if you don’t want to know,
‘knowledge is a burden’. A Man thinks
before he speaks. Never interrupt
someone that is speaking, you will embarrass yourself.
Learn
to cook; you will never be beholden to anyone.
Get yourself a “Betty Crocker” cookbook so that you will never starve. This is how you cook and egg. This is how you scramble an egg. This is how you cook an omelet. This is how you make the coffee. This is how you make marinara sauce. This is how you cook a burger. This is how you bake a cake. This is how you make cookies. Practice your cooking; you will find that it
will come in handy. This is how you set
a table for breakfast. This is how you
set a table for lunch. This is how you
set a table for dinner. Read the local
newspaper; how else will you know what is going on in town. Read “Time Magazine” if you want to have
topics for small talk. Never use big
words in a conversation if you don’t know what they mean. When you entertain, make sure that your
guests feel welcome and comfortable in your home. A Man greets his guests first and makes
formal introductions to all other guests.
Vacuum
the kitchen and the family room when you come home from school. This is how you dust. Mop the floors, cut the grass, and sweep out
the garage on Saturdays. Inside is just
as important as outside. Chores will
teach you discipline and responsibility.
This is how you iron a shirt. This is how you iron slacks. This is how you separate the laundry. This is how you operate the washing
machine. Never use too much detergent,
and always dry the clothes with a “Bounce” sheet. Wash your sheets and pillow cases every
week. You must do your part. You can’t expect me to do it all. Fold your clothes and put them away once they
are clean.
Never
drink milk from the container and put it back in the fridge. Never jam your toast, lick the knife, and put
it back in the jam jar. Clean up after
yourself if you make something to eat.
This is how you properly wash tableware.
A Man’s kitchen is as clean as a laboratory.
If
you are sick, stay home and get plenty of rest.
Drink lots of water and juice.
Have honey in your kitchen, and drink plain hot tea and eat dry toast
after you vomit. Be considerate of
others. Act your age and others will
respect you for who you are. Don’t try
to be someone you are not.
If
you borrow another Man’s tools, return them cleaned. If you borrow someone’s car, return it with
the gas tank full. If the car is dirty,
run it through a car wash first. A Man
keeps his car clean; inside and out. This
is how you change a tire. This is how
you replace the wiper blades. This is
how you check the air in the tires. This
is how you check the oil. A Man never
lets his automobile fall into disrepair.
Transportation is very important and must be a priority as to its
maintenance.
A
Man attends church on Sundays. A Man is
well dressed for service. This is how
you end your week. This is how you begin
your week. You will never be alone if
you belong to a congregation. A Man sits
in the pews attentive to the ceremony. A
Man knows how to say, “I am sorry.” A
Man knows how to graciously accept an apology.
This is how you put balance into your life.
Can we stop, I am getting a
headache?
Enough
for now; tomorrow is another day…
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